![]() For example, if your goal is to run a marathon (42km), you might allow a specified period in which to realise the goal. “A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.” ― Bruce Leeĭepending on the size of the goal, it’s advisable to focus on smaller victories that draw you closer to your goal. Alternatively someone who is completely unrelated to your interest may also serve as a watchful eye as they offer an unbiased perspective. It is advisable to work with people who have walked your path or who have similar experience. We’re likely to stay focussed on the task at hand since we don’t want to disappoint others.īeing accountable allows an impartial observer to assess your work. You might verbally or in writing, declare your intention to achieve a certain goal by a specific date. I gained valuable insight into my work as I had the luxury of having someone else critique me as well as make creative suggestions on areas for improvement.īeing accountable may also entail making declarations of your commitment to those close to you. Some time ago I used a number of mentors to help me stay focussed. I’ve always been an advocate of being accountable to someone, irrespective of how disciplined I am. Focus like a laser beam on your goals.” ― Roy T. Phase out the old habit by replacing it with the NEW, empowering habit. I have solidified the new habit by persisting with it.Ĭontinue your new habit until it becomes second nature - until you have a firm grip on it. I now work unaffected writing with the internet connection active, since I know I won’t aimlessly waste time surfing the web. I continued this process for twelve straight days before the NEW habit became ingrained thus disabling the old negative habit. In recent times, I stopped this habit by disabling my internet connection so I could focus on the task at hand. I know I’m buying time from the real task at hand - writing an article. To illustrate, when I sit down to write or research I find myself wasting time surfing the internet on occasions. If you’re aware of negative habits, replace them with affirmative ones. The key element is to create daily habits that will draw you closer to your goal. Some of them have remained with you since childhood. You may have started them months or even years ago. Many of your current day to day tasks are habitual in nature. You’re already in an advantageous position to drawn on your habit making skills. I’ve mentioned in previous articles about the importance of establishing sound habits for long term success. No one can hit their target with their eyes closed.” ― Paulo Coelho “Whenever you want to achieve something, keep your eyes open, concentrate and make sure you know exactly what it is you want. With that in mind, here are some guidelines for persevering with your goals - no matter what life throws at you. Success requires discipline, hard work, perseverance, tenacity, will, courage and faith. How many stories or biographies about successful people have you read where the narrative involved smooth sailing or an easy path toward success? Very few I would imagine. Through belief, you create the circumstances for giving up and thus validate it by looking for evidence to substantiate it. It typically follows this course of dialogue: “It wasn’t meant to be,” “It wasn’t fun anymore,” or “Life is all about having fun.” The point worth mentioning is our minds have the ability to create any mental state we impose upon it. I often hear the reasons people recount why they gave up. Life will continuously test your resolve to see how much you desire your goal. The following paragraphs are ways to encourage you to stay committed to your path. The following quote serves as a reminder of the importance of the bigger picture: “Don’t sweat the small stuff, because in the end its only small stuff.” Afterall, you’re only human and from time to time things will slip past you. ![]() Rest assured managing life requires vigilance, dedication and commitment. At this point you’re perplexed how this all came to pass without seeing the writing on the wall. You might find your relationships fall apart when least expected, your health deteriorates or your finances take a beating. It’s any wonder we often neglect those things which are important to us. The capacity to manage ones finances, health, relationships, career and a host of other things makes it arduous at the best of times. The difficult task people often face is remaining steadfast in the pursuit of their goals. “If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.” ― Albert Einstein
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